It’s hard to believe I’ve been back in New Jersey for 10 days. It’s been an adjustment to life, weather and just getting back into my regular routine.
I didn’t have to stay 6 weeks in Montgomery. I did have to go down, but I could have driven back solo while my husband finished his course. I could have driven down, did what I needed and drove back to New Jersey (driving close to 4000 miles in 6 weeks). Instead, I chose to drive down once, stay there during the quiet weeks and drive home together. That way, we could drive one car, stay together and it would be more enjoyable that way.
When we moved to Alabama, I packed everything I would need in two suitcases. We weren’t sure the exact time frame, but you can live out of a suitcase for 2 months.
To be completely honest, I was nervous to go down there. As I mentioned, I left my job for 6 weeks. I didn’t know anyone in Alabama. While I had things to do, it definitely was not as much as living back in New Jersey.
But I wanted a risk, new adventure, and challenge. I told myself: if I had lived in the middle of nowhere, Texas, I could make it Alabama. Thinking out loud and truth be told, despite the constant tornados, I liked Alabama.
Living in Alabama taught me a lot how to live minimally. I learned I have far too much clutter here in New Jersey.
Essentially, I lived out of a suitcase in a two room hotel for 6 weeks. In the hotel, we had a kitchenette but no oven. It wasn’t bad, and we were able to eat healthy and make do without it.
So how did we go from too much stuff to a suitcase full?
Lucky for my husband, he has two work uniforms. Then he needed about 2 regular clothing outfits. Since he was running and training for his marathon, he brought more shoes than I did. Realistically, he could have probably lived out of a backpack…As an over packer myself, I could not.
Do you really need 5 pairs of black leggings? Sure, the material might be slightly different or the pattern but is it necessary? I brought exactly 10 outfits that could be paired differently. Different tops and different pants. I brought three pairs of leggings and did laundry every few days. I grew to love that clothing enough that I won’t be wearing any of it for a few weeks now that I’m home.
When I got home, I had even forgotten I owned certain leggings. At that point, I realized I had too much stuff.
We Learned New Simple and Basic Recipes:
We didn’t have an oven. So we were forced to cook the majority of foods from a pan or the microwave. For example, one of my favorite ways to cook vegetables is by roasting them. Roasted beets are delicious! Instead of forgoing beets at all, we decided to try something new and boil them. It worked out just as well and honestly it’s something I’ll do back in NJ too.
So while living in a 2 room hotel for a while wasn’t ideal, it did teach me a lot.
When I got home, it took me about a week, but I downsized and donated a lot. What were some questions I asked myself:
- Race Tshirts: Does the shirt have meaning to me? Did I PR? Do I like the shirt, if it wasn’t my favorite, it was donated.
- When was the last time I wore an item? If it wasn’t in the last full calendar year, it was donated.
- Do I have multiple of the same thing? Base layers are great, but do you need 4 pairs of nearly identical black leggings? I couldn’t even remember all of the similar styles I had.
- Running Shoes: As someone who works in running retail, I had over 20 pairs of shoes. I’m actively running in 3 pairs right now! I kept one model of each brand, and donated 13 pairs. It feels like a fresh hair cut.
I’m happy to be back and I don’t regret staying down in Alabama for the full six weeks. I learned a lot about myself and what was truly important to me.
Questions for you:
How do you figure out what to keep or donate?
What are some tips you have to live with less clutter?