My blog has always been a journey of my life. Since I began my blog a few years ago I’ve grown as a person and connected with so many different people. I have a lot of real life friends and family that read, as well as people I’ve never met. Each person is sharing my personal journey with me. I chose to write and share my life. I’m not saying that in a negative way but nothing is forcing me to blog. It is isn’t a source of income to help me survive and no one is telling me…blog or else.
So when I turn off the computer or shut it down, blogging and the internet are not at the front of my mind. I like to exist outside of the internet occasionally.
In life, not every comment you receive is going to be positive. People are not going to tell you how awesome you are, or wow you’re an inspiration about every single thing you do. You will have both positive and negative feedback. The negative feedback is what helps you grow as a person. As hard as hearing the negative feedback and the truth is sometimes, it needs to be heard.
With blogging there is never much negative feedback. I could go run 50 miles today coming off an injury. That would be stupid. I guarantee someone would tell me what an inspiration I am for running 50 miles… Sometimes I wonder if blogging is the never never land with rainbows and butterflies where nothing bad ever has happens. No one ever tells anyone: your idea is dumb or grow up. That comment would be instamoderated because “omg sponsors”.
By now the website GOMI isn’t anything new. It’s not a secret and it’s not a group of jealous haters making fun of bloggers. My guess is it’s a combination of bloggers, readers and people who like to speculate and talk about bloggers. GOMI forums both criticize and even make fun of a lot of bloggers. It’s easy to do when no one knows your name and you are hidden behind a username.
Somethings GOMI says are hurful…ie: constantly asking me if I graduated college or how I did it…somethings on GOMI you can take with a grain of salt or even (gasp) better yourself from. One thing I appreciate about the website is that it isn’t afraid to call out the BS.
Often times (like a few posts about when I completely dropped the ball using the word proportion instead of portion…) they are merited. I don’t spend a lot of time proofreading my posts because I write them in the morning (between 6-7). After that I go run for a run and then get ready for work. I could spend more time on posts but my purpose with this blog is to share my life with friends and family as well as readers. I want to share my life in “real life” as well and if that means sacrificing blog time to see friends and family…then so be it. I will never apologize for that.
At the end of the day I’ve come to realize that my life exists outside of the computer screen. Once I shut the computer off, the internet isn’t the focus of my life. It’s important to have that balance.
So yes, I graduated college. I was a community health major with a math minor. The only class I failed in college was Spanish 2. Since my grammar is awful, you can only imagine how I picked up a foreign language. It’s actually quite funny because my senior seminar class grade was based on one mid term and one 50 page paper. RIGHT? I had to write 50 pages and they had to have proper grammar and spelling (Incase you wondered I got an A-).
(My dirty secret is that I don’t blog like I wrote papers in college. I put far more time and effort into college than I do a blog…).
My blog is a flow of my thoughts to the screen. I don’t (and I never will…sorry) worry about grammar as much as if I had grades on the line. Maybe if I had paychecks on the line each month, I would. But now…I am just making enough to break even, enjoy my hobby of blogging and build a network of friends.
I don’t really have a point to this post I guess. My blog is a reflection on my life. Some days there is a point to my posts, some days it’s just me thinking out loud. I find that my blogging is more of a reflection of my own life versus trying to reflect to others. I guess that is why blogging would never be a good career choice for me. I would rather reflect upon my own life versus post about trivial products that I’ve never even tried.
I have a lot of real life friends and family that keep in touch through my blog. I have a lot of readers that I’ve never met in real life. I enjoy the connection I have with each person near and far. I always appreciate the support but I do appreciate negative feedback because it helps me grow.
To be clear I’m neither attacking any bloggers or attacking GOMI. I’m just writing out my thoughts that whatever you do you’ll have feedback both positive and negative.