Facebook has allowed me to stay connected with so many high school friends. I remained facebook friends with my high school friends after graduation. Even people I went to high school with and wasn’t sure if we were actually friends. Did we hate each other? Were we friends? Were you my best friends ex boyfriend? Should we be facebook friends? Is that drama?
All of those answers were…who cares I’m in college 700 miles away from home now. None of my high school friends knew my college friends and vice versa. Worlds Seperated.
Then I went to college and had some of the best four years of my life. My freshman year roommate and I explored our new found college life. I fell in love with a lot of things. I entered college as a math and education major who swam and was still seeing someone from high school. I left college as a community health major who ran seeing a pilot (Tim). A lot happened and changed in those four years, none of which I regret. I, once again, met a lot of people became close, became distant and remained good friends. Each year people shifted in and out of my life.
Add that to another addition of facebook friends. After college I asked myself…will we remain close? Are we good friends? Were we good friends? Did we meet at a college rager once, never to talk again (um delete)? Were you a good friends side piece that actually I didn’t care about (also delete)? Of course I didn’t delete anyone I knew or to occasionally see what they were up too. Sometimes you know that deleting someone as your facebook friend is better.
Then I went to Oswego and worked. Once again I met a great group of people who really helped me assimilate into a college town when I was no longer a college student. The same questions applied except this time, there is no college reunion. There is no high school reunion. I would love to see my friends and I hope I do make it back up there at some point soon. (I am going to try!). But I found myself with lots of new friends, all in different areas of the country.
Then finally when in all three phases of my life, I have a completely different realm of facebookfriends that I didn’t mention. Those who live in VA Beach and run. Virginia Beach and the Tidewater Striders will always be where my heart of running lies. I love coming back to races, seeing friends and it’s where my love of running began. I’ve met so many great people from age 6 to 80 and we all share a common love: running.
Now I’m living in New Jersey and I add a fifth depth of facebook friends that don’t know each other.
So why am I even using facebook? As obnoxious as facebook is, it is allowed me to stay connected to my personal friends and see what they are up too. It wasn’t until this week when I was looking through my friends list that I realized my friends and ties are all over the country. Without my friends, I would be lost.
Social media has always been very good to me. It’s allowed me to stay connected with friends from middle and high school, college, jobs and just people I’ve met through running!
Questions for you:
Do you like facebook? How long have you had a facebook?
Do you stay connected with high school or college friends?