Lessons from the Wounded Part 1
In this month of not running, I have come to realize that I am more than an athlete. It is hard to explain if you have never been in the situation but I am more than a runner. More than a swimmer. More than an aerobics teacher. More than a student, sister, daughter, best friend, blogger, weirdo… I am a collection of things-random things-but lots of things. I have really discovered a lot of life lessons in this last month and mushy as you will I want to share them with you. I used to do some sort of variation where I would share interesting facts about my life on Fridays versus food blogs, or blogs about athletics. Which, now that my seasons are starting to gear up again, I guess I am more inclined to do more fitness related blogs. But anyways-I’m going to bring back Factual Fridays, and bring to them more of inspirational people in my life that I fail to mention on the blog.
At the beginning of the summer-I sought out negativity. True story. I could tell you the 1 bad thing out of 100. I just got 9th of 1000 females in a race, but it wasn’t 8th. I’m top 16 in our conference but I’m not top 8. I would do it with people too. Oh she is gorgeous but she has a chipped nail. You know, I’m a knit picker. Not a good quality-I’ll be the first to admit.
But I think I have grown up a little bit-or maybe a lot.
So thus, as Snoop Dog says in California girls, Greetings loved ones, lets take a journey”
And that is where we need to go. Farther back then college and my high school days, we are talking all the way back to middle school. Most of the time, I try and forget those days because they aren’t exactly highlightable moments, however, a couple months ago, one of my good friends D’Angelo reached out to me and made me remember the good times. D’Angelo and I don’t need to talk everyday to know that we are close. I can honestly say, if I were to pick a handful of influential people in my life, he would be in the hand.
D’Angelo has taught me a lot in life and the last 8 or so years we have been close. He never took anything too seriously, and I love it. I used to be so freaking scheduled. If you aren’t on my schedule. Forget about it. I am timely, I am organized, I do not deviate. I run at this time. Class. Swimming. Secondary run. Eat. Sleep. If you can’t roll that way, then you can’t roll with me.
But D’Angelo is much different from that. He was so carefree and never got his panties (presuming he wasn’t wearing panties…in a bunch). He truly cares about each and everyone of his friends and I swear I could call him from school at one in the morning to chat about my issues and he would understand. Like I said, we stayed close throughout middle and high school and I know for a damn well fact I wouldn’t be the same person if it wasn’t for him. He doesn’t put up with crap and he’ll most certainly call you out on it and I love it because I do the same thing.
In fact, when I was chosen for senior homecoming court, I could think of no one else better to be my escort.
Well. Where does this all lead to?
Today I got brunch with D’Angelo and it was fabulous. Although no pictures of food today I eased into the fact of my blogging. I knew he would understand of course. I don’t tell too many in high school about the blog, because quite frankly I don’t talk to them. But I knew D’Angelo would totally understand. It might have been a little creepy though that I had said I already typed up a post all about you. True life, makes you want to be my real life bestie. Anywho-I had a black fin crab omelet. Bomb.com.
So my blogging besties. If you take any life lessons out of my blog besides pancakes fuel champions….Do not get your panties in a bunch. Oh and a total quoatable moment from D because I love him. “I’m so glad to surround myself with attractive people, now when I look in the mirror, I don’t have to say there is only one beautiful person in the room. I can say two”
Question for you:
Tell me about an inspirational person in your life.